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Do your sexual encounters start with anxiety or end in an oops?

I Am Going To Let You
In On A Secret…

YOU Can Take Control, Last Longer,
And Put A Smile On Her Face!

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Do You Relate To Any Of These Guys?

Do You Relate To Any Of These Guys?

Kevin Is Dating

One night he overheard his date in the bathroom, laughing that he was a two-pump chump. Now Kevin’s heart races with each new encounter.

Tom Is Married

His wife rarely wants to have sex, and when she does, he is so excited that it ends quickly. Now he worries that his wife will stop wanting to have sex altogether.

Scott Is Single

They had great chemistry, but he just couldn’t last. His girlfriend got fed up, said he was selfish, and went back to her ex. Scott is deflated and not dating.

Matt Is Seeking

As a perpetual student of self mastery he has achieved success in every area of his life. His weak spot is sexual performance and now he wants to find out what his body is capable of.

Their Problem Isn’t Premature Ejaculation. Their Problem Is A Lack Of Education And Training!

Their Problem Isn’t Premature Ejaculation. Their Problem Is A Lack Of Education And Training!
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Healing, Education, and Training are the Keys to Taking Control

Shari understands this better than anyone because she has guided over 2,500 private clients giving her the unique advantage to see firsthand what worked and what did not.

She has observed that…

• Men have hard-wired bad habits in their minds and body.
• When it comes to sex, men go unconscious and perform on autopilot.
• Technique alone is not enough.
• Men unknowingly create premature ejaculation.
• Men give their sexual power away to women causing them to lose control.

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Healing, Education, and Training are the Keys to Taking Control

Shari understands this better than anyone because she has guided over 2,500 private clients giving her the unique advantage to see firsthand what worked and what did not.

She has observed that…

• Men have hard-wired bad habits in their minds and body.
• When it comes to sex, men go unconscious and perform on autopilot.
• Technique alone is not enough.
• Men unknowingly create premature ejaculation.
• Men give their sexual power away to women causing them to lose control.

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All Of The Above Can Be Solved With Healing, Education, And Training That Is FUN!

All Of The Above Can Be Solved With Healing, Education, And Training That Is FUN!

Shari James, RN,

Is A Master Tantra Teacher & Healer Specializing In Holistic Sexual Wellness.

Shari has empowered thousands of men with her doctor-approved, holistic approach, which aims to keep the power in men's hands, taking it away from big pharma.

As a former stripper turned RN, then Tantra Teacher to Holistic Sex Coach (known for a "pill-free" approach to healing ED), Shari James has been helping men "keep it up" since 1992.

The emphasis of Shari's work is to help men get hard, stay hard, and last long. 

Shari has been featured on ABC News, Playboy, and the Good Men Project. 

In addition to being an expert guest on top podcasts, she has been a guest speaker at one of Forbes top 3 must attend events, Secret Knock. 

Shari's mission is to raise the consciousness of men through the doorway of their sexuality.

Here's What My Previous Clients Had To Say!

Here's What My Previous Clients Had To Say!

Marc W

"I can release when I want to, my stamina is crazy! I had a non-ejaculatory climax. I am harder and bigger then normal and my wife is more interested in me... I'm smiling."

Dan K

"They should teach this in school, every guy needs this training."

Grant M

" My girlfriend was receptive to this and now we mutually agree when I can release. We are doing it more frequently and I am having DAMN BREAKING Big O's"

Landry L

In the training tonight I had the most intense release of guilt and shame. It was like I became an animal and couldn’t stop letting the sounds and emotions pour out of me. It felt amazing and wild and freeing. It was mind bending.

Kevin G

I am no longer suffering from premature ejaculation. We consistently have sex that lasts for hours with multiple organisms on both sides and we are doing this almost every day! It is unlike anything I have ever experienced in my life.

William B

I am in complete control of my ejaculations and I know how to stimulate her to orgasm. Typically she is having 3+ intense orgasms prior to me ejaculating and we are having sex daily. A typical "sex session" lasts well over 30 minutes and sometimes longer than 1 hour. She is extremely happy and can't seem to get enough and all of this makes me feel awesome!

There Are So Many Of YOU
That Need This Training!

But unfortunately, there is only one of ME,
so I decided to create this online course
to share with you my proprietary process
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This Is The Course Your Penis Has Been Waiting For!

This Is The Course Your Penis Has Been Waiting For!

INTRODUCING

The Take Control Training™

Your solution to END premature ejaculation 

Enjoy an anxiety-free sex life that leaves her coming back for more
with my female-approved, proprietary process that gives you
confidence so you can last as long as you want to.

WEEK 1

During this week, we will lay the foundation to help you not only last LONGER but ensure LONG lasting results for years to come with any partner.

WEEK 2

Powerfully connect to your primal manhood with an intense orgasm

  • Break the habit of not lasting longer by resetting with the proprietary Take Control Technique.
  • Release your “performance-related” guilt, shame, and embarrassment

WEEK 3

Build upon the Take Control Technique™, to create a full body orgasm by upping the challenge line and focusing on sensation.

WEEK 4

Build an intense full-body orgasm by using “sensation, body wisdom, and the foundational technique.

WEEK 5

Create a non-ejaculatory internal orgasm!!! Challenge yourself to find out what your body is capable of through discipline and the Take Control Training Technique™

WEEK 6

Last longer by combining the art and discipline of ejaculatory control to WOW her in the bedroom and become the master of your sexual destiny.

In addition to the 6-week course, you’ll get an additional 6 weeks of implementation time that includes Shari’s expert coaching to help you with any nuances and troubleshooting as you apply what you learned.

If you are single and not currently sexually active this will be 6 weeks of preparation for your next encounter. 

For The Entire 12 Weeks, You’ll Get Custom Coaching At Your Fingertips, From The Convenience Of Your Device 

You will have access to the Take Control Training for one year.

In Addition To Ending Premature Ejaculation With My Propriety Take Control Training, Men And Their Penises Have Reported That They….

• Have had an increase in   firmness and size
• Are having sex more   frequently
• Last as long as they want   to, and can release when   their partner does
• Get sexual “callbacks”
• Have gained massive   confidence
• Have delayed orgasms which increased pleasure
• Can create 3 different   types of orgasms:   Intense, Full Body &   Nonejaculatory
• Are recharged Instead of   drained after sex
• Stay Present and tuned   in during sex
• Felt a boost in their   testosterone level
• Have rewired their   mind/body connection   after being a porn user

Premature Ejaculation Is NOT Your Problem.
Your Problem Is A Lack Of Training And Education.

Give me 12 weeks and I will help you WOW her in the bedroom for the rest of your life!

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Perfect For You If.....

You are Single or
in a Relationship

Last Less Than
15 Minutes

Experience
Premature
Ejaculation

Suffer From
Performance
Anxiety

Have Delayed Ejaculation 

Are Post
Prostate Cancer

You Want To Pick Up
Where Edging Left Off 

The Take Control Training™

Your solution to END premature ejaculation 

Enjoy an anxiety-free sex life that leaves her coming back for more
with my female-approved, proprietary process that gives you
confidence so you can last as long as you want to.

Let's Talk!

Women Don’t Want To Hurt You, So They Usually Don’t Tell You That You Are Underperforming

You’re not stupid. You are a smart guy..... 

Underneath her smile, you can sense her disappointment. 

Enroll in Take Control Training today and be the lover she is leaving the OTHER guy for….

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Women Don’t Want To Hurt You, So They Usually Don’t Tell You That You Are Underperforming

You’re not stupid. You are a smart guy..... 

Underneath her smile, you can sense her disappointment. 

Enroll in Take Control Training today and be the lover she is leaving the OTHER guy for….

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Frequently Asked Questions

Frequently Asked Questions

Look, You Know You Are Going To Be
Having Sex Anyways, Right?

Look, You Know You Are Going To Be
Having Sex Anyways, Right?

Why not find out what your body is capable of and learn to create 3 different types of orgasms?

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So that you can have the most maximum, mind-blowing sexual experiences ever.

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Do it for YOURSELF and also for HER